I'm sure you have had these moments,when you were in a group of five,six maybe, or even three is enough. (Now take a look into your photo albums and look at the pictures years back)
It was happy back then, and sad,maybe,however the emotions were before,it was all in the past,right?So,anyway as time goes on,everyone starts taking a different path in their respective lives and you group dwindle,one by one in the group is leaving.That's a classic case of the cycle of life.
And then,you form another group of friends,another six or five,and the group will also eventually grow small.That's something that is easily,observed in life.
all of us have got to move on,that's a pretty simple thing to understand.
I have a story to share anyway.It was back in my college years,before I entered the university.I took a cab,just arrived at a bus station and would be taking the cab to college.It was a rainy night,a cold one as well. :)
anyhow,he was telling me this story of him and his friends.back then at school,they were best friends and do anything and everything together-you know,things like football,karaoke,saturday night out to the clubs,just what teenagers do,i leave that to you to define,yeah?
and then, after they are done with high school,everyone starts taking a different path.one (now and according to the cab driver) became an important person in a big corporation,another a very successful entrepreneur and now a millionaire,bla bla bla and then,of course the cab driver himself.
There are two things I'd like to point out here,babies.One,yeah,the group you're with at the moment will not last forever,perhaps for only a few years.Secondly,during your school years (including your college years) you are pretty much at the same level. Although some of your friends are rich,hey,that wasn't pretty much of a barrier.
But then, when you get older,and everyone has a career of their own,a barrier suddenly exists.And the cab driver had even said, there's that invisible barrier that stops them from mixing together.I'd call it,the status quo ?
Well,that's the story.
What do you think?Well,I know we cannot generalize it.But why don't you look back and see how your life went.
Anyway,that's why at the end of the day,you have your family that will always stand by you no matter what happens.You fight with each other here and there,but everything will turn out right.
and of course, your close friends,maybe not all of your friends stick with you but the ones who do,those friends are the ones you should really look after and don't mess with it.But like anything else,anything can happen.However.eventually will turn out just...fine.
Have a good day.
Clive
cheerio!
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