Showing posts with label Life's experience - my friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life's experience - my friends. Show all posts

Thursday, December 16, 2010

the Boxer story


This happened at my home.
yeah,it was night time and usually, when I'm at home-so does my other housemates, we don't wear shirts and most of the time, just in our boxers. normal,isn't it?

Well, my friend was coming over, he said. But he didn't say he was going to bring someone along.

So, when he finally arrived, I went to the door and opened it. Only that timelah there was a girl standing next to him (the girlfriend) and when she looked at me, the eyes widened and quickly hid beside the door.

=_=
my body terlalu macho.hoho
oh well, at least I'm not naked.
so boys, next time you're coming to my place, make sure you specifically mention who's coming with you.

happy christmas! :D

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

The Role of Youth in Malaysia

1.Just this week, many things have been happening. For one, my good friend, K (her nickname) is currently organizing "The ASEANpreneurs Youth Leaders Exchange" where youth leaders from the ASEAN region are joining this event, exchanging ideas and thoughts and bringing in many popular figures to come in and give talks.


2.And a few weeks before that, another good friend of mine, Michael Teoh was named the winner of the global Smaller Earth Your Big Year competition.

3.And another friend, Alexander of Nottingham University in Semenyih emailed me about how a group of youths going to hold workshops for rural high school students on tertiary education opportunities in Sarawak to address the particular problem, West Malaysians generally remain unaware of the plight of East Malaysians. Most have never been to East Malaysia and have never witnessed first-hand the situation for themselves. The general impression of East Malaysia as the backwater of the nation is a prevalent stereotype that holds too many ounces of truth in it. As a result, many Sarawakians view West Malaysians with general suspicion and an underlying resentment. As the Federal government continues to concentrate it's distribution of economic wealth in the Peninsular, accessability to quality education resources in Sarawak remains a stagnant ambition for the majority of the state's youth.


4. I'm just saying guys that our country is not short of young, enthusiastic leaders. Not one bit.In fact, we are very competitive in terms of this particular aspect. Once, I did attend this one event called as, Youth'08 and Youth'09. Yes guys, I attended both years. :)

5. What I found there was really making me delighted to see our young people are very enthusiastic in moving the country forward, regardless of who you are. In fact, the new generation (I regard this group as below 30) as more concerned about being Malaysian first, and malay-chinese-indian-kadazan-iban-bidayuh-bajau-etc etc...(sorry guys,too long to mention. :P) second.

6. And the best part is that these guys are not only enthusiastic, but very sincere in what they are doing, in the sense that it's not always about the money.It's more of achieving their goals and pursuing their interests.

7. So, that's why I must stress that if the government wants to remain relevant, they have to start paying very serious attention on what these youths are doing, guide them to be on the right platforms and give more emphasis towards identifying talented youths across the country. You'll be surprised at what they can do.

8. Only thing is, I do have to mention here that these youths are a little bit rebellious, in a way, so we have to adjust how we intend to form this so-called collaboration. *wink*

9. I think there are a few things I hope (my personal opinion, without the backing of the general views), these are some of the things that we should focus more:

a) give appropriate recognitions to the youths, not only to those who have been outstanding but also to those who have contributed their energy and time for the country.

b) the political arena of the country should move with time. Our young people are literally sick with the backstabbings and dirty news written on paper and reported in the news channel, so to remain relevant is also to engage the people in a clean and appropriate manner.

c) be more responsive and pay more attention what the youths are proposing. For example in the case of my friend K I told you earlier, it's clearly a very good event in terms of developing the youths, relevant government agencies should take this opportunity to engage the youths more effectively. Private sectors should also not do it for CSR (corporate social responsibilities) to demand for (in certain cases) tax-exemption, but to consider contributing in these sorts of initiatives as a form of national service.

d) guide the youths. you know, Mr. Government, most of the time, these young people, including myself aren't clear whom to approach, what organization to work with. So, spend some time in making your agencies more accessible and make it known to them what are your roles and responsibilities.

e)
elected-representatives of the people, YB's, MP's, Dato, Datin of the governments, make yourselves more approachable and don't be too much of the Kings where it is so hard for the people to meet you. too much protocols can too, make yourself irrelevant. Take the example of Dato Saifudin Abdullah, the deputy minister of Higher Education. That's a good example indeed. After officiating events, for example, don't leave right away for the VIP room and hang out with the rest of the so-called important people, but maybe sit and have a short informal chit chat with the youths. we know you're busy, but isn't serving the people, hearing the words from the people themselves is part of your duties as well?

and

f) include youths in the decision making. I know this sound a little bit immature, but whatever policies you guys are making, make sure the people that are going to be affected are part of the decision making as well. Make sense isn't it?


10. It's time that these youths are given the attention- an appropriate one. Although they may be lacking in terms of experience, maturity maybe for being too naive in certain issues/ cases, but actually they are the future leaders of tomorrow. If the parents don't provide the guidance to them, then who will? In this case, the parents are the government. Just as being a good parent is to listen well to your child's needs, so should the government.

11. Just my two cents, but I have no doubt that investing our time in understanding the role of youths in Malaysia could make a whole lot different. Apart from the three I just mentioned earlier, many more are creating impacts of their owns. Only thing is, not enough credits, recognitions and attention are given to them. Who's fault?

Clive


Thursday, November 18, 2010

the inexplicable Change

Hi dear friends,

I'm sure you have had these moments,when you were in a group of five,six maybe, or even three is enough. (Now take a look into your photo albums and look at the pictures years back)
It was happy back then, and sad,maybe,however the emotions were before,it was all in the past,right?So,anyway as time goes on,everyone starts taking a different path in their respective lives and you group dwindle,one by one in the group is leaving.That's a classic case of the cycle of life.



And then,you form another group of friends,another six or five,and the group will also eventually grow small.That's something that is easily,observed in life.

all of us have got to move on,that's a pretty simple thing to understand.

I have a story to share anyway.It was back in my college years,before I entered the university.I took a cab,just arrived at a bus station and would be taking the cab to college.It was a rainy night,a cold one as well. :)
anyhow,he was telling me this story of him and his friends.back then at school,they were best friends and do anything and everything together-you know,things like football,karaoke,saturday night out to the clubs,just what teenagers do,i leave that to you to define,yeah?

and then, after they are done with high school,everyone starts taking a different path.one (now and according to the cab driver) became an important person in a big corporation,another a very successful entrepreneur and now a millionaire,bla bla bla and then,of course the cab driver himself.

There are two things I'd like to point out here,babies.One,yeah,the group you're with at the moment will not last forever,perhaps for only a few years.Secondly,during your school years (including your college years) you are pretty much at the same level. Although some of your friends are rich,hey,that wasn't pretty much of a barrier.

But then, when you get older,and everyone has a career of their own,a barrier suddenly exists.And the cab driver had even said, there's that invisible barrier that stops them from mixing together.I'd call it,the status quo ?
Well,that's the story.


What do you think?Well,I know we cannot generalize it.But why don't you look back and see how your life went.

Anyway,that's why at the end of the day,you have your family that will always stand by you no matter what happens.You fight with each other here and there,but everything will turn out right.


and of course, your close friends,maybe not all of your friends stick with you but the ones who do,those friends are the ones you should really look after and don't mess with it.But like anything else,anything can happen.However.eventually will turn out just...fine.
Have a good day.

Clive
cheerio!

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Group photos!




had a group outing the other day.had dinner.lots of laughs.but not really full 'cause foods were expensive. >_<

but it was fun.
guess where were we in these pictures? :)

Thursday, November 4, 2010

My last class,hopefully. :)

I had my last class.Hopefully it will be my last class as a degree student,no unfortunate events occur with my exam,I'll make it through! :)

Even so,the thoughts of the class as my class had somewhat,left a sad feeling though. I'll miss being a student, who wouldn't when you don't have to worry much about what's going on out there but your studies only?



And the people you see in the pictures,hey,it wouldn't be that easy to group all of them together again in the next 10 years. Many things will happen along the way and each will be taking a different path.



2010 had been a mix of happy-sad-fun-exciting year for me.I have learned a lot from this year,and I'll cherish it definitely.

And I know many more things,unexpected events and memories,will be taking place in my future as well as yours.But one thing we have to bear in mind,don't run away from it but learn to accept that it's there and figure out a way to deal with it.

I have this to share with you,

Frodo: I wish the ring had never come to me. I wish none of this had happened.
Gandalf: So do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us. There are other forces at work in this world Frodo, besides the will of evil. Bilbo was meant to find the Ring. In which case, you were also meant to have it. And that is an encouraging thought.


good luck! ;)

Saturday, September 11, 2010

A farewell to a friend

Had attended a farewell party for a good friend of mine, Qiqi before her trip to Manchester on the 15th of September to pursue her master.
Barbecued, playing fire crackers and lots of laugh!

you go Qi! have a safe trip!