Thursday, March 1, 2012

Sex moves to drive him crazy

Think of the naughtiest trick you've ever tried in bed. Now imagine bumping up the intensity so that it was even ballsier. Pretty. Freakin'. Hot. That's the idea behind our dirty wicked moves that go from kinda kinky to beyond bad girl. Bonus: besides providing variety, this mix actually will enhance your pleasure. Physical sensations become less thrilling when you repeat a routine too often, even if it seems pretty daring.

Try a bit of bondage
Getting tied up instantly boosts the sexual energy because it brings in the element of vulnerability. When you're bound, you're completely at the mercy of your partner's urges, which is exciting. Plus, you can focus entirely on being pleasured since you're not able to reciprocate.

Naughty move: Lie on the bed with your hands tied together, and let him devour you. Have him start with a tease by holding his first and second fingers in a V, placing them on either side of your clitoris, and massaging in a scissoring motion. Then he can use side-to-side motions with his tongue to get you really worked up.

Even naughtier move: Have him tie your hands with a scarf and hang them on a hook on his door before he tantalises you with oral. Since you'll feel totally like his sex toy, you can add to the arousal of being restrained by begging him to "release" you and let you orgasm. Playing up that he's in control and responsible for getting you off is a huge turn-on.

Much of arousal is driven by what we see-especially for guys. Many men love watching a woman get turned on. It lets them know what gets her going and makes them feel like they're doing something illicit by just sitting back and enjoying the show.

Naughty move: On a night your guy is coming over to hang out, masturbate alone just before you're going to see him, but don't let yourself climax. To bring yourself right to the edge without going over, close your eyes and imagine your guy's lips taking the place of your hand. Squeeze your PC muscles for a count of five as you massage your clitoris, then stop moving. Stay naked until he shows up, and let him see the flush that naturally spreads over your body as you near orgasm.

Even naughtier move: Before a date, entice your guy over to your place early, and let him watch you masturbate before you leave for the evening, telling him he can have his turn later. He'll think it's hot to get this intimate peek, which allows his own arousal to surge. Don't let him interrupt. Instead, tell him you expect him to finish where you left off when you get home.

Handle his package
Usually for foreplay, you touch him so he's hard, but stroking him until he climaxes is rarely the main event. Once a couple start having sex, hand jobs stop! Manhandling him will show your dirty desire.

Naughty move: Surprise him with a hand job when he least expects it. While he's chilling on the couch, cuddle up next to him, trail your fingers down his chest, and unbutton his pants. As you grab him, whisper that you're doing all the work this time.

Even naughtier move: Don't only shock him with sexy stroking-also do it when he can't possibly react the way he wants to. The next time he's on the phone, come up behind him, unzip, and go to work.

When you pretend you're someone else, you completely change the rules. For one, you both naturally become much more daring as you act. Also, you have to be creative to play the part, and that means coming up with all sorts of naughty things your character might be into.

Naughty move: Pretend you and your guy are complete strangers. Set up a time for both of you to be at the same bar, and play out the scenario like you're meeting for the first time. Before you approach him, flirt with a few guys (totally innocently). Then make your way over to him, and introduce yourself as whomever you want to be. After a bit of small talk, tell him you want him to come home with you.

Even naughtier move: Role-play that one of you is inexperienced and needs sex lessons. Have the novice write down what they want to learn.

Test-drive twisty, torrid positions
Nothing screams naughty like providing a view and finding new angles neither of you is used to. One tip: Do it in various parts of your house, because it'll force you to accommodate your positions to the different obstacles.

Naughty move: Take the action to the couch. Have him stand up and enter you from behind as you kneel on the cushions. There's something hot about standing-up sex, and doing it in a semipublic room makes it feel taboo. You can deepen the penetration by lifting one leg so that your foot is flat on the seat of the couch and you're leaning back against his chest.

Even naughtier move: Stay true to the purpose of a couch: Tell him to sit back and enjoy the show. Only this time, it's not the TV he'll be viewing... It's you. With him in a seated position, straddle him, then place his hands on your hips and lean all the way back.

Ambushing your guy turns you into a total sex vixen who can't get enough and makes him feel extremely wanted. When you're not expecting something, your senses are heightened, making it easier to enjoy every touch during a hookup.

Naughty move: Slip into the bathroom, and position yourself naked on the sink so he's surprised by the stunning scenery when he pulls aside the curtain. Then have him stand in front of you so you can wrap your legs around him.

Even naughtier move: Meet up for dinner after work. Wait until you've been seated, then tell him you forgot something in the car and will be right back. Once you get outside, text him that you need his help with something. When he comes out, pull him into the car and go at it (at the parking lot!). Having sex in a somewhat public place is exhilarating because you're worried about getting caught. Try the backseat.

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